Forcing - physically, verbally or emotionally - someone to engage in any sexual activity they do not want, have not consented to or have not been in a position to give full consent to - usually manual sex, oral sex, vaginal or anal sex or fondling - is rape and/or sexual assault. When a rapist is known to the person who has been raped, it is called acquaintance, partner/spouse or date rape. It is rape ANY time one partner does not want to be engaging in sex and the other engages in it to or on them anyway.
from http://www.scarleteen.com/article/crisis/blinders_off_getting_a_good_look_at_abuse_and_assault


Because sometimes it's nice to have someone fully spell it out for you.

Stress Relieving Poem Time

No matter how much we strive to succeed
It cannot bring us happiness
No trappings among this mortal coil
Can ever help us find cosmic release.
Throw away your passions, my brothers
Cast off your desires, my sisters
Let us strive not for perfection
But instead for absolution.

There is no salvation on Earth
It can only be seen in release
Remove yourself and find bliss
Remove yourself and find emptiness
Remove yourself
And be free.

I wonder if any have known a love quite like this
If they managed to savor each sweet touch and kiss
I spend my days caught up in the mists of a dream
Ignoring those who claim things aren't as bright as they seem.

Deepest desires have transformed to the wildest of flames
Our passions so great they put that of others to shame
With pillows askew, and sheets hopelessly mangled,
We spend blissful nights with our limbs impossibly entangled.
The part of our love that I treasure most of all
Is the joy that results from a simple text or a call
Those long talks we share in the late hours of the night
Are the things that I shall value for the rest of my life.

Every day that we meet I feel I have met him anew
But my heart says I've known him my whole life through
I feel such blissful joy in sharing the simplest of tasks
I can only hope such a feeling manages to last

No other being in the world could incite my passions so,
Cause my life to light up, and set my heart aglow.
I send praises to the divine being who brought him to me
And pray that a long, happy life together we'll see.

I am sorry if this poem is found to be cheesy or lame
But please understand, the authoress is not to blame.
When something this grand has entered your life
How could one manage to not slightly overexcite? 

I Did It!

It was a long, painful road, but I finally kicked my soda habit. The headaches were intense for a long time, but they've finally faded away, and my body has finally started to keep itself awake on its own accord, thank the gods.

While I don't really think that giving up calorie-free soda will in any way help me on the path to weight loss or whatever people say, I think that reducing the amount of dangerous chemicals in my body should help my joints hurt less at the very least. Water is driving me crazy with its blandness, but I'm putting lemon juice in it to kind of perk things up. :)